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cease grasping and clinging to anything. " |
Let's begin with a traditional reflection:
From beginningless time until now, countless
Also from beginningless time, I and all beings,
May I never give up the realization of total,
Until I am able to abide without clinging in that
May all my actions be motivated by the wish to
In order to fulfill that wish, I will do as all the
By the merit gained through this prayer may I
Of the six he identified, the Buddha taught that there was really only one that mattered -- generosity, and that if generosity was perfected, all the others, in an inevitable and developmental process, would be perfected too. Looked at from this point of view, for a meditator aspiring to liberation for the sake of all beings, the relationship to the dana bowl, to the outstretched hand of the street person, to the telephone call from the friend in crisis, is the most important personal relationship there is, save that with the Teacher her, or himself. The opportunity to give is our call to loosen, to let go of some part of ourselves in support of another. It is only through loosening the tight, ego-centered grasping which ties us to fixed views of about our own capacities that allows for the possibility of liberation. This universe of which we are part is in a state of dynamic unfoldment which we can call flow. To fully realize our state of union with universe, or God, or Buddha-nature, whatever your language is for that concept which goes beyond language and concept, we must cease grasping and clinging to anything. It is very unlikely that a person will come to that state of total letting go, or flow, without a lot of practice. We are conditioned to hold on, to seek stability and permanence when our own senses give us continual evidence that no such states exist. In the face of such illogical behaviour, it is clear that we need to practice non-clinging deliberately and repeatedly, to break down these established habits of mind.
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